Pamela

"Oh, Cove. You're a great kid. Most parents hope that their kid meets such a special person someday. "Someday" is the real key word there. But you just had to move in, right across the street, at eight years old."

- Pamela teasing Cove and the main character

Pamela is a character in Our Life: Beginnings & Always. She is one of the protagonist's adoptive mothers.

Appearance
Pamela has brown wavy hair, brown eyes, and pale skin. She wears round glasses, light yellow v-neck long sleeve shirt, and a long black-and-white patterned dress for Step 1. In Step 2, she keeps her hair in a bun. She wears a blue button-down long sleeve shirt with two pockets, a long brown skirt, and red earrings. During Step 3, she wears a blush pink button-down shirt with a tied-up hem, rolled up sleeves and a pocket, and a long plum pleated skirt. Her wedding ring is worn on her left hand for this Step.

Her sleepwear is presumably a pink striped pajama shirt as shown in "Sleepover". She wore a gray blazer on top of her black lace dress in "Soiree".

Personality
Pamela loves puns and lighthearted quips. She is known for always making jokes and brightening up the mood. Sometimes, she exaggerates her reactions to certain situations like dramatically gasping as one form of her humor. She also has a tendency to tease other people, especially Cove.

Although she usually shows a bright and approachable demeanor, she also has a stern side. She is the first to lecture her children when they do something dangerous or not pleasant.

Noelani
Noelani is her wife. Pamela is shown in several instances to be sweet to her and vice versa, often using terms of endearments towards each other. They also work together to tease Elizabeth and, sometimes, the main character to some extent depending on their reactions to their mothers' dialogue.

Main Character
The main character is her adopted child.

Elizabeth
Elizabeth is her adopted daughter. She often teases Elizabeth and makes exaggerated reactions whenever her daughter responds in annoyance, especially in Step 2.

Cove
Cove is one of her neighbors.

Cliff
Cliff is one of her neighbors and her friend.

Kyra
Kyra is one of her friends. Pamela often jokes around with her whenever they are interact. She takes the opportunity to tell a joke the first time they meet.

Trivia

 * Pamela is stated to be a lesbian (albeit indirectly in "Growing") and in a tumblr ask answered by the creators.
 * She works as a computer research scientist who holds different positions related to that over the years.